| There is no surprise more magical than the surprise of being loved. It is God's finger on man's shoulder. ~Charles Morgan |
Each being has a longing to
be loved and accepted by others, thus the yearning for companionship. We cannot subsist without others, without joining into associations with others. I think for most people, the challenge is in finding wholesome bonds and constructing healthy boundaries, which do not lead into sure heartbreak and mental agony. That is why it’s imperative to find peace within yourself, first.
You must work on your character before engaging long term with anyone. You shouldn’t drag your old baggage of unresolved issues into a new relationship…That’s not fair on the other person. Nor is it fair to yourself.
Damaged boundaries are a sign of codependency. The primary cause of conflict and difficulties in relationships lies in unhealthy boundaries. My boundary is my container. When I am too contained or not contained enough, then problems in relationships result. Wekiva Springs Wellness Center.
Alongside working on character flaws, part of taking stock is writing a full inventory of all your blessings. By the time you're done with that list, and after having taken a good hard look around you; It would be very hard to say that Life is picking on you.
Take the time to heal, to flourish, to know yourself, to know your worth and value, to grow up and to enjoy a sober life under your own terms, to mend and restore any marred boundaries. You should always give time, time. Trust the process and curve out a normal, satisfactory, structured, non-dependent, strong life. Then, in time when that God-given mate comes along, You’re rehabilitated, restored, renewed, repaired and reborn.
You're healthy, both in mind and body.
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| Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else. ~Judy Garland |
Toots, look above. Please, please Be You.
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